Misery LOVES company!

“She is at a point in her life where peace is her priority and negativity cannot exist.”

You ever get to a point in life where you CANNOT let negativity in? This is where I am at in my life. Being human, we already have SO many things that affect us day to day. So whats the point of letting negativity in? About a month ago I made up in my mind that I will try my hardest to remain positive and to try to see the positive in every situation.

This was wayyy harder than I thought it would be! I didn’t realize how much of a “negative Nancy” I was. Don’t get me wrong, its not like I walked around moping all day everyday but what I did do was focus on negativity and let it take over my day. I haven’t always been like that. I think it came with age and hardships. In my case it, the older I got the more I let negative things bother me.

First, I knew that I had to change the way I think. I started filling my social life with positive things. I followed positive people on my social media handles and deleted the negative ones. I’m a homebody but when I do occasionally step out of my lair I only hang out with people who are doing positive things. I tried to only engage in positive conversations and excuse myself from the negative ones.

Ever since doing this I’ve definitely noticed a difference. I feel like a better person. I feel like I am more in control of my mood. I definitely have slip ups. I still have points where I just want to be alone but I’ve learned that, that’s ok! Life isn’t about being perfect its about knowing that you tried your best. There’s no reason to only focus on  the negative and so many reasons to focus on the positive.

I hope that this post inspired you to take those lemons and make lemonade (or vodka, I don’t judge)!

Thanks for stopping by,

With love as always,


4 replies »

  1. This is so important! I def have learned to take control of life through channeling my emotions and feelings so that it always benefits me! Energy is contagious, gotta control the environment around you 🌈💕🌼🦄

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